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Status Updates posted by Belle
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I have just checked the layouts on the Swap section. So many layouts and friends that are not on SG's anymore. Some of the photos and layouts, I've forgotten about. Talk about a walk down memory lane. I saved them all to my computer.
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Thanks Belle, that's so kind and a good tip, but I have lots in my downloads so would have to make a separate folder. I do have lots of pages she made back when we were scrapping "together" and she'd send them to me, but if you look at her Gallery pages her notes are so "Jody" I want to save them too. So I'd have to screenshoot each and every layout page and it would take a lot of time and space. Space I could figure out, time - don't think so... 🥲
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CindyLuWho posted this on my status. Thank you so much.
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Oh, no... did the web link not come thru? Okay, here is the content of the post I pulled from Sara Arell's self-written obit....
Sara Gaffney Arell Obituary
Obituary published on Legacy.com by Church Street Funeral & Cremation on Aug. 25, 2023.
This is my story.
If you are reading this obituary, it means that I have taken my last breath here on this beautiful home, my beloved mountains of Western North Carolina. I was born in Brunswick, Georgia, January 9, 1945, to the most wonderful Mom and Dad, Nell Campbell Gaffney and Ralph Leon Gaffney, who made the brilliant decision to move to Hendersonville, NC , and rear their two girls here.
My beautiful blonde, blue-eyed sister, who always had to be first, was called too soon to heaven many more years than she should have been, and I have missed her terribly! Mama and Daddy both left way too soon and left a hole in my heart that could never be filled.
I am writing this myself because I know if my obit was written when I was 80 or 90 that whoever wrote it might not write about my interesting, loving and very meaningful life and you the reader might be bored. I'll start with, "Wow, what a wonderful life I've lived!" All the little things about me that most of you already know – Immaculata, Hendersonville High, and the joys having my own mom as a teacher just made life a party! I was so fortunate in so many ways.
I started my grown-up life two weeks after my 18th birthday giving birth to daughter Deborah Leigh! All bundled up in a tiny pink blanket. When the nurse handed her to me, I knew immediately that my career was now set in stone and being a Mama would be my forever title from that day forward. February 19, 1963, was the first day of the rest of my life and Debbie and I would be doing it together! I was in love! Our first three years together were just out of a dream – she and I did everything together. I wore short white denim skirts with white sneakers, and she wore the same – every day we dressed alike. She was my twin, but for one thing – she had a temper and I've never had one. My little red-headed, freckle-faced munchkin was my best friend for life!
My sister Nell Gaffney Mims had moved from these much-loved mountains to Savannah, Georgia, to be with her then husband, John Mims. He was in the Air Force, and they were stationed at what was then Hunter Air Force Base. Debbie and I packed our worldly goods into my 1966 silver Mustang and headed for Savannah. My little 3-year-old and I thought we were going for a short visit – little did we know it was the beginning of the rest of our lives.
I've never been a fan of blind dates, but brother-in-law insisted he had a buddy I just had to meet. I groaned, but said I'd meet him. I walked out the front door where my Mustang was parked to see the hood of it opened with a guy in fatigue pants and his head under the hood. It wasn't until he turned around that I realized I wasn't breathing – my heart was beating so fast. That, my dear friends, was on November 11, 1966, and on December 30, 1966, we married each other in the sweet little white chapel at Hunter Air Force Base.
It would take a novel to write all of our adventures during his 26 1/2 years of service to the Air Force, but they were happy fun-loving years. I had never been happier, and the happiness just grew and grew all those years. When Debbie was five, her Dad and I gave her a tiny little gift – Mark Richard Arell, born September 7, 1968 at Shaw Air Force Base, South Carolina. Our hearts were full. Big sister Debbie doted on her little brother. We survived through the many military moves the temporary duty, and much time apart, but our love was so strong and nothing could have come between what we had. On August 16, 1973, our family grew again with the birth of another son Brian Campbell Arell at the Medical Center on Keesler Air Force Base, Mississippi. We were one big happy family. Our children weren't put to bed by the sounds of Mommy singing sweet lullabies, but by the roars of nightly military planes practicing touch and go landings – we lived almost directly across from the flight line. It was at Keesler Air Force Base that we found a calling to be foster parents. Foster parenting brought us such joy.
We had the opportunity to move to Izmir, Turkey, and spent over 2 years there in the mid-1980s. From there, we moved back to Shaw AFB, South Carolina. After over 26 years, my beloved Rich called me from a temporary duty in Saudi Arabia and told me when he came home, he was putting in his retirement papers. We moved back to my hometown Hendersonville and the biggest surprise of all – he became a police officer for the city of Hendersonville. He served there for 25 years and then retired again! I relished and adored my role as the wife of a man who by all standards has more integrity than any other man I've ever known. He's always encouraged my love for our roles as foster parents (we fostered over 21 children), my role as a sexual assault advocate and guardian ad litem. I never once doubted that I was the love of his life and neither of us went very long without saying I love you to the other.
We were blessed on May 22, 1990, with Christopher Patrick Gaffney Arell – Buster, our youngest son.
My precious children Debbie Arell-Martinez (Ed), Mark Richard Arell (Kim), Brian Campbell Arell, and Christopher Patrick Gaffney Arell – I know you will keep me close in your hearts forever. No one will ever love you as much as I do. Thank you for letting me be your helicopter Mom.
My beautiful grandchildren, Jerrica Wild (George), Sara Wiggins (Steven), Lucy, Campbell, Rose, and Dirk – Nanny loves you more than you know.
We're lucky enough to know our great grand-children, Landon and Carter and soon-to-be baby Wiggins – I'm glad I could be in your lives for a little while.
Rich, my beloved husband, you truly were the love of my life.
Sadly, I was preceded in leaving this beautiful earth of ours by my sister Nell Gaffney Harden, my parents who I loved so much Nell Campbell Gaffney and Ralph Leon Gaffney, my maternal grandmother Sadie Johnston Campbell, my paternal grandfather Roy Chester Campbell and my much-loved in-laws Eleanor Clark Morse Arell and Albert Armand Arell.
A Visitation – Celebration of Life will be Saturday June 3, 2023 from 2:00 PM till 4:00 PM at Church Street Funeral & Cremation, 125 South Church Street, Hendersonville, NC 28792. Flowers may be sent to the funeral home for the family, or family ask that donations be given to the Henderson County Foster Parent Association at PO Box 2332, Hendersonville, NC 28793. -
Wow! It's an amazing thing, but the last few days i've been going over the names of all the many friends I met on SG, and Sara was certainly one of them...problem was I couldn't remember her name! I could remember Rich, I could remember she was from Hendersonville....it has worried me for a few days. I'm sorry we lost contact. She was a special friend,
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I just found Sara's obit -- she wrote it herself! And it is full of her personality. She is missed, to be sure. Sara Gaffney Arell Obituary - Church Street Funeral & Cremation - 2023 (legacy.com)
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Wow! It's an amazing thing, but the last few days i've been going over the names of all the many friends I met on SG, and Sara was certainly one of them...problem was I couldn't remember her name! I could remember Rich, I could remember she was from Hendersonville....it has worried me for a few days. I'm sorry we lost contact. She was a special friend,
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Just went onto Facebook to check how Sara Arel is doing. I saw she passed away 20 January 2023. She was such a lovely person. Always had the nicest comments. She was so missed when she stopped scrapping and LSL.
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I just found Sara's obit -- she wrote it herself! And it is full of her personality. She is missed, to be sure. Sara Gaffney Arell Obituary - Church Street Funeral & Cremation - 2023 (legacy.com)
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Level 9 warnings in the Western Cape for bad wind. Two trucks have been blown over already. Trees, roof tiles, fences and much more damage. Fires in Paarl. Tonight, the rain starts and then there will be flooding. We are safe here, but I feel sorry for the people in the bad areas.
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Thanks Jane. Everyone is safe on the farms. Nedelene is Knysna got so much rain. The homes in the town are all flooded. Luckily, her farm is okay.
Jan, my son at the House on the Hill farm, said he always prayed to one day have a farm with a river. He bought a farm with a river and now, after the heavy rain, he has got two rivers. 🙄
The worst is over down here but the storm is moving up the coast. The warning level has dropped from level 9 to level 6.
I always tell my son, one day, I'm going to buy a caravan and move onto the farm. He said he would put me next to the river. That's where all the flooding is. 🤣
Thank you for caring. Hope your family is well and stay safe.
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Do we have an April challenge chase? The link that April posted doesn't work. Is there a Monthly Challenge? I've been AWOL for a few days.
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Today is my 14th Scrap Girls anniversary. Thank you, SG, this is by far the best club ever.
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Did I miss this weeks Weekend Wildcard challenge? I can't seem to find it or am I jumping the gun again?
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I just managed to upload 1 layout when my laptop conked, again...
Last time I lost a lot of stash. I was able to get it back from Angie. I was going to do backups today, but of course, I didn't. 🤔
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Congrats to Australia who just won the Cricket World Cup. Well done. 🏏
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Jana has the following for sale, Magical Textures for Photoshop. Can this be used in PSE 23 as well.
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I have a problem. All my stash is sorted into my organiser. There are three people with the same initials.
- Silvia Romeo
- Susie Roberts
- Syndee Rogers
- I've done a search in the organiser but I don't know who SRO is. I found Silvia Romeo under Silvia, but what are the other two?
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@Celestine thank you. You are a honey 🍯.
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You are right of course, @Celestine. I do have products under SYN (for Syndee) but maybe they were freebies? I'm a little confused about that.
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I want to send a private message to @Celestine. My mailbox is full. I don't know how to access it to empty it. There is not an option to send Celestine a PM. I don't know how to send my Fill in the Blanks form.
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Yesterday we officially adopted Jock, our foster dog. I'm thrilled that he has got his forever home. ❤️
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My computer has broken down. Probably from all the layouts that I did in the last 2 months. I had to take it in today. That is why I was rushing to finish my bingo. The guy says he doesn't know if he can retrieve anything. I've got 2 months of SG stash that I will have to download again. 😪 Not to even mention the photos.
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I can't find the June Monthly Challenge. Did I miss it?
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Did I miss the Weekend Wildcard Challenge?
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Hi Laura, could you please tell me the name of the template that you used in Project Life Week 16?
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Hi @Belle, sorry I am delayed in responding. I am honored that you want to use my layout! Thank you. Here are the supplies that I used:
Supplies Used: SBA_SSStyles_BasicShadows_6501_ColorMatch_Large http://store.scrapgirls.com/ScrapSimple-Tools-Styles-Paper-Borders-6401.html http://store.scrapgirls.com/ScrapSimple-Alpha-Templates-Photo-Collage-Numbers.html https://store.scrapgirls.com/ScrapSimple-Embellishment-Templates-Continental-US-Super-Biggie.html https://store.scrapgirls.com/By-Plane-By-Train-By-Automobile-Collection.html BHA_Expedition (Retired)
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Well, it's almost time to finish with the 100 layouts. I've really enjoyed doing them and could quite easily do another 100.
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I need help. I cannot find the link to upload my scraplift. I can't even find the one I did last Saturday. Please help. I see the two in the New Images, but that does not take me to the upload images page.🙃
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I didn't realize she had you posting the layouts in a section rather than a specific gallery. We would usually use the Hodge Podge Gallery for games like this month's but since the 100 days challenge is using it, I created a Leave Some Love &Scrap-Lift Gallery for the game and we can move the layouts there.
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@Belle I moved the layouts I found that you'd posted into the new Gallery, please let me know if I've missed any! 😊
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Today is my 12 anniversary with Scrap Girls. I must say, it's been an awesome 12 years.
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I'm sorry I'm not LSL on the layouts. The power situation is getting worse and when we have power, I just try to stay up to date.