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We went from being Number One on the list in January 2010 to getting our referral of our second daughter this week! We have the referral of a 7 month old baby girl from South Korea. She is cute! We are in love with her just from that first glimpse of her referral photo! We waited 2 years for this, and now all I want to do is get on a plane and get to South Korea as fast as I can to hug her and kiss her and tell her Mommy's here. I am full of joy at this moment, yet knowing there is much sadness in her story, I am subdued. There is sadness in my heart for her, for those who had to make such difficult decisions surrounding her care. It is with sincere reverence and respect for those people, those decisions, the story of her life, that I hold her in my heart with abounding love. I am left with two polar opposite emotions surrounding this news, sadness for her story and sheer joy that we are her forever family and will be meeting her shortly. (3-6 months from now). I want her to know that she is loved, by so many, and endeared by so many. She truly is a special gift, in many ways. I pray that God helps her transition from Korea to our home with minimal stress and that He comforts her in her grieving. I pray that God comforts her in her times of sadness when she begins to understand who she is and what her life story is. I pray for wisdom as her forever mom, guidance and peace, so that I may guide her through any problems that she might have along her life's journey. Already, I know that she is an amazing little girl, and I cannot wait to bring her home.
This is our second daugther from S Korea, we adopted Annabelle in 2007, and now welcome Addelienne (Addie for short) to our family!
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It's A Girl! referral received April 22, 2010
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Posted 24 April 2010 - 07:24 AM
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Posted 24 April 2010 - 07:33 AM
CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR NEWEST ADOPTION! How wonderful for your family - I know you are all excited and happy to have her finally home. May God bring peace and happiness to you now.
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Posted 24 April 2010 - 07:36 AM
Congratulations, Beth! You are such an awesome mommy and I can't wait to hear that you have Addelienne in your arms. My daughter's birthmother's name is Adeline so I have a bit of fondness for the sounds of it. I think some people may not understand how we care about those that came before us, but we do. I'm still trying to find my kids' birth families after the earthquake in Haiti.
Keep us informed of your progress and I can't wait to see the photos and layouts!
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Posted 24 April 2010 - 08:41 AM
How very exciting for your family!! Your heart seems to be filled with love for this little girl as her "forever mommy" and may you all be blessed with her joining your family...soon! Looking forward to 'meeting' her via LO's!! Loving thoughts and prayers to all!
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Posted 24 April 2010 - 09:21 AM
Beth what wonderful news --- thanks for sharing your journey with us!
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Posted 24 April 2010 - 09:57 AM
What WONDERFUL NEWS!!! I'm thrilled for you! Can't wait to see photos of your new cutie!
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Posted 24 April 2010 - 11:10 AM
Congratulations Beth! That is so exciting. She doesn't know how lucky she is. Travel safe and be sure to post some pictures! Wonderful news!
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Posted 24 April 2010 - 12:34 PM
Oh, Beth, I am so happy for your family!
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Posted 24 April 2010 - 01:00 PM
Wonderful news Beth! Congratulations!
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Posted 24 April 2010 - 01:18 PM
Congrats Beth and I hope the transition is smooth for your family, she is very blessed little girl!
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Posted 24 April 2010 - 01:20 PM
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Posted 24 April 2010 - 01:39 PM
I well remember the day that the social workers brought our adopted son to use and the feeling I had when I scooped him up out of the carrier he was in - it was instant love and I was, at that very moment, his forever Mommy - and I always will be We have had many problems that so many adopted children go through but I am still his Mom and there is nothing that will ever change that. He is adored and loved and although he has made some poor choices, we love him as much or more than our own bio children - he is a special boy - almost a man now - but still that day lingers in my heart and in my mind all the time. I do think that one has to be an adoptive parent to understand our love for these children, and I hope that someway they understand that it is a very special love with which we are blessed - and it is truly a blessing! My thoughts and prayers are with you and can't wait to hear all about her once you finally hold her in your arms - the bond begins right at that moment and it never goes away. Thinking happy thoughts for you.
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Posted 31 May 2010 - 08:41 PM
Update on our referral...
well, things for us did not work out after all.
The little girl we were referred had a series of cardiac problems and had open heart surgery at age 6 weeks old to get a wall built between the 2 chambers of her heart. This will need replaced as she grows older. There are several other health issues as well, including respiratory difficulties that may or may not get better. Long story short, we had to decline this referral. We declined it four days after we got it, after hearing from the adoption and cardiac doctors at CHOP Philly about what this little angel's condition really is. We were not prepared for that nor do we have the means to care for her needs as time goes on. I was heart broken, and grieved for a long time. We are still waiting for a sister for Annabelle now. No word as to when we would hear again. But, on the good side, because of the new medical information from CHOP, the agency changed her classification to waiting child (instead of healthy) and there was a family waiting for a "cardiac kid" case, and got her, AND they were approved for a grant of some sort which helps them with her care. So we were a pit stop on her way to her forever home and I feel good about that.
All in God's hands...
well, things for us did not work out after all.
The little girl we were referred had a series of cardiac problems and had open heart surgery at age 6 weeks old to get a wall built between the 2 chambers of her heart. This will need replaced as she grows older. There are several other health issues as well, including respiratory difficulties that may or may not get better. Long story short, we had to decline this referral. We declined it four days after we got it, after hearing from the adoption and cardiac doctors at CHOP Philly about what this little angel's condition really is. We were not prepared for that nor do we have the means to care for her needs as time goes on. I was heart broken, and grieved for a long time. We are still waiting for a sister for Annabelle now. No word as to when we would hear again. But, on the good side, because of the new medical information from CHOP, the agency changed her classification to waiting child (instead of healthy) and there was a family waiting for a "cardiac kid" case, and got her, AND they were approved for a grant of some sort which helps them with her care. So we were a pit stop on her way to her forever home and I feel good about that.
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Posted 31 May 2010 - 09:21 PM
Sorry this didn't work out for you, but how wonderful that you were a step in getting the little girl to her forever home. It is truly all in God's hands.
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Posted 31 May 2010 - 09:23 PM
Sorry to hear that things didn't work out for your family, but what sweet story. I'm happy she is in a family that can deal with her needs. I hope things work out for another daughter for you soon.
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Posted 31 May 2010 - 10:26 PM
I'm sure you must have been heartbroken to make that decision. Know that God will have a child for you soon. God bless you Beth.
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Posted 01 June 2010 - 09:33 PM
I'm sorry this child didn't work out for you, but I know there is another little girl just waiting for you. I can't imagine how hard the waiting must be and how heartbroken you must be, too. I will continue to pray for your family!
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Posted 01 June 2010 - 09:46 PM
Oh wow Beth, that is such exciting news!!! Congrats, and how lucky she is to have you as your for her. Can't wait to see all the new LO's.
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Posted 01 June 2010 - 11:26 PM
Beth, you weren't just a pitstop, you were a golden link in the chain of love that is taking her to her new home.
I am affirming that all is in Divine Order and the perfect situation is working its way out.
Blessings to you all -
I am affirming that all is in Divine Order and the perfect situation is working its way out.
Blessings to you all -
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Posted 03 June 2010 - 11:25 AM
Beth, I'm so excited for you and I understand how you feel about your new daughter and her life changing and all that she has gone through to get to this place. Our niece was born in China and we had those same thoughts as we waited for her to join our family 6 1/2 years ago. Congratulations on your new little daughter and know that God has a reason she's becoming a part of your family, and I can't wait to see your new layouts with her included in your family photos.
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Posted 03 June 2010 - 05:58 PM
Beth, you showed a mother's true love for this special little angel by letting her get to the forever family who can meet her needs. That is true love and knowing you, I can imagine how heartbroken you are. But your next daughter is out there somewhere and I pray that you and she meet soon. And will also keep this special little one in my prayers as well. Blessings on all of you.
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