Normally, the top of this post is where I would brag about the adorable/thoughtful/heart-touching parts of the book, praise the author for their great job and hope that you all enjoyed the book as much as I did. Hmm. That's not happening this month, LOL! Instead, I shall get right to the questions, and will save my commentary for a follow up comment on this thread in a day or so, after others have had an opportunity to do all of the bragging and praising that I can't.
Be aware: THERE COULD BE SPOILERS IN THE QUESTIONS AHEAD! So, if you're not ready to discuss yet, come back when you are - we have all month long! Also, an apology. I couldn't find a series of discussion questions online, so the sad attempt below is mine. Feel free to discuss ANY other parts of the book. Seriously. Please, lol.
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1. Margaret's character is meant to be seen as manipulative, critical and, at times, downright nasty. Do you think she earns those very judgement terms, or do you think the criticism of her character is overdone? Is she truly the monster mother-in-law that Allie sees her as, or is she just a grieving, misunderstood mother?
2. What do you make of the relationship between Allie and Hank? Should Allie have given him (and his mother) more grace throughout the book? Did they deserve her anger and frustration, or did she let her lack of self-confidence control the narrative far too often (i.e. Robyn?!)
3. Give us your thoughts on some of the other relationships in the book: Allie and Val; Samantha and Margaret; Samantha (and/or Margaret) and Keith; Hank and Margaret, etc. What positives did you take from any of these relationships? What blinding negatives did you see?
4. Towards the end of the book, you hear Margaret's backstory and see a quick turnaround in her actions. Do you have hope that a future friendly relationship between Allie and Margaret is possible?
5. Who was your favorite character? What character did you identify with the most? Were there any characters that you disliked? Why?